tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post1449684119109809097..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): Homemhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-64190627111708039682008-12-26T17:33:00.000-05:002008-12-26T17:33:00.000-05:00I liked what Natalie did for her Devin. Here blog...I liked what Natalie did for her Devin. Here blog is really good--<BR/><BR/>http://lunardreams.net/baby/?page_id=192Delennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12567889031642608101noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-4817330918593550602008-12-20T18:08:00.000-05:002008-12-20T18:08:00.000-05:00We had Sally Ann cremated and her ashes put into a...We had Sally Ann cremated and her ashes put into an urn and a locket I wear around my neck. I put together a memory box with all the U/S pictures, rememberence cards, doctor's stuff, my bracelet from the hospital and the pink wrap they placed Sally in when she was born/died. I lit a Yahrtzeit candle (Jewish memorial candle) in memory of her. That was about all we did. My dad said, "now that Lisa DGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02134785866812104866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-79570674785164806362008-12-18T09:25:00.000-05:002008-12-18T09:25:00.000-05:00Found you through Barbara's blog. I am so sorry t...Found you through Barbara's blog. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your girls. <BR/><BR/>We wound up scattering our son's ashes in the Hudson River, in a quiet spot that we had gone on vacation several years before. Just the two of us went- though both our parents offered to go, we wanted to be alone with our son and each other. We each said someting very brief and scattered the ashes Dani819https://www.blogger.com/profile/00620957484893505246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-45271192050452054252008-12-18T00:29:00.000-05:002008-12-18T00:29:00.000-05:00I'm glad you feel strengthened about your girls be...I'm glad you feel strengthened about your girls being home with you both.nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479202205264710056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-41618308230662023892008-12-17T11:01:00.000-05:002008-12-17T11:01:00.000-05:00We didn't do anything. I was being very pragmatic...We didn't do anything. I was being very pragmatic about things. Because Ernest wasn't healthy, I told myself it was just an early miscarriage that went on too long. It happens. We would have another.<BR/><BR/>Today, I don't have any regrets. We named the baby at the suggestion of our midwife which I am very glad for. We got his ashes weeks and weeks later and since Brad didn't think I was Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-56950666098479703082008-12-17T10:53:00.000-05:002008-12-17T10:53:00.000-05:00You are so strong. You will find the right way to ...You are so strong. <BR/><BR/>You will find the right way to memorialize your girls. There are some wonderful and very personal stories shared here. Good ideas, all.Ryan's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08851872543330753308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-32606668508798569982008-12-17T02:29:00.000-05:002008-12-17T02:29:00.000-05:00No advice on how to honor your girls, but I did wa...No advice on how to honor your girls, but I did want to let you know I am still thinking about you and M and continue to keep you both in my prayers.Skerryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18335729190639150356noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-63548162446846285282008-12-17T00:44:00.000-05:002008-12-17T00:44:00.000-05:00It's nice to know that you have your kids back. Ha...It's nice to know that you have your kids back. Happy Holidays!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-77554800783255521842008-12-16T22:03:00.000-05:002008-12-16T22:03:00.000-05:00I'm glad you have your Isobel and Jovita back with...I'm glad you have your Isobel and Jovita back with you and are taking strength from their presence. I've never gone through the loss of a child, but I too well remember the obligatory gravitas I encounter from health care professionals when I had cancer in my twenties. The looks on their faces were sometimes "That POOR girl." Made me thinking they had me written off.<BR/><BR/>Take time to think Mohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671855540466269330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-88162526717546329622008-12-16T17:23:00.000-05:002008-12-16T17:23:00.000-05:00The only 'service' we had was at the hospital, the...The only 'service' we had was at the hospital, the day I was discharged, two days after Henrick was stillborn. I wanted it to be over and done with and go home. I didn't want to make small talk or be told that Henrick was in a better place. I wasn't bitter, but I wasn't ready for a gathering. After a month I too wondered if a larger service may have been nice for the same reason loribeth Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11393847636501599146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-72192680998168003082008-12-16T16:25:00.000-05:002008-12-16T16:25:00.000-05:00We didn't want a funeral, we took George to a spot...We didn't want a funeral, we took George to a spot of wild woodland and Ray dug his sons grave. The <I>one</I> thing he could do for him. I placed him in the ground in his tiny biodegradable box and we planted daffodils and crocus in his spot. We sent him back to nature. <BR/><BR/>Whatever you do has to be right for you and your girls. I'm sure whatever you choose will be beautiful and perfect Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-11166856296103840502008-12-16T15:21:00.000-05:002008-12-16T15:21:00.000-05:00I am so glad that the girls are now at home. Much ...I am so glad that the girls are now at home. Much love to you.Staciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01471803757485977959noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-39247128593308110422008-12-16T14:37:00.000-05:002008-12-16T14:37:00.000-05:00We held a very small funeral/memorial service afte...We held a very small funeral/memorial service after my father arrived, 11 days after I delivered our daughter, at the church dh & I attended. We had her cremated, and her ashes interred in a niche at a nearby cemetery. (I put in a letter with her urn, & dh put in a book.) We still visit the cemetery just about every weekend. It is nice to have a place to go that's "hers." <loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-12564341546291295212008-12-16T14:33:00.000-05:002008-12-16T14:33:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry for your loss.I'm so sorry for your loss.Pamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03154636161249104743noreply@blogger.com