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term='body image'/><category term='dreams'/><category term='court decisions'/><category term='quickie'/><category term='running'/><category term='food'/><category term='religion'/><category term='frozen embryos'/><category term='screeching halt'/><category term='outreach'/><title type='text'>Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): Measuring Heartache</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/feeds/1919966175752837604/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html'/><author><name>m</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='29' height='32' src='http://photos1.blogger.com/x/blogger2/3850/498265859273628/240/z/863750/gse_multipart25719.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>9</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6280366980560579093</id><published>2009-06-02T10:19:03.877-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-02T10:19:03.877-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Ah.  Beautiful comment from M.  And I definitely s...</title><summary type='text'>Ah.  Beautiful comment from M.  And I definitely see truth in it.  Perhaps it's bittersweet, for me.  Bitter, for obvious reasons.  But sweet, because I have been exposed to this huge wonderful capacity to love that I really never understood or appreciated before our babies.  I "get it" now.  Thank you for sharing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I'm sorry for the rest :(</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6280366980560579093'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6280366980560579093'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243955943877#c6280366980560579093' title=''/><author><name>Bluebird</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='07118322769849064494'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_BsVaLXBYH1Y/SadezKXfVHI/AAAAAAAAAJY/_1oOXe72eNM/S220/bluebirds2.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1347285788'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-659452638319469164</id><published>2009-06-01T13:21:16.208-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T13:21:16.208-05:00</updated><title type='text'>M is just amazing, but I suspect you know that.

I...</title><summary type='text'>M is just amazing, but I suspect you know that.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am very sorry about the news.  I just can't believe that.  How?  Why?  I hope you learn something, fix something, or whatever and you are able to get this FET to work.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/659452638319469164'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/659452638319469164'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243880476208#c659452638319469164' title=''/><author><name>Kami</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1762959246'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-9013420786564589852</id><published>2009-06-01T02:19:23.396-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-01T02:19:23.396-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm not going to pretend that I understood a word ...</title><summary type='text'>I'm not going to pretend that I understood a word of the medical part, but the rest I understood perfectly. Thinking about you two...</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/9013420786564589852'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/9013420786564589852'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243840763396#c9013420786564589852' title=''/><author><name>Mick</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17790930871453854978</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='18409109437495373355'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_EesSXvGEr1g/SZRuYfcOe5I/AAAAAAAAAB4/hRyJFgmW_Jk/S220/DSC01248.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-612134730'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-8814226824508780739</id><published>2009-05-31T17:15:10.027-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-31T17:15:10.027-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Bah... crap... shit ... etc

Wishing for better da...</title><summary type='text'>Bah... crap... shit ... etc&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wishing for better days for you two, lots of better days.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;xxx</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/8814226824508780739'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/8814226824508780739'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243808110027#c8814226824508780739' title=''/><author><name>Barbara</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='05091287504893077344'/><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_Sg1MShDcFzY/SXDEaxMhp9I/AAAAAAAAAMw/l-MPfbUaTyo/S220/DSC00113.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-61525215'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6918091123898582552</id><published>2009-05-31T00:08:14.867-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-31T00:08:14.867-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry you got such depressing news at the appt. Ma...</title><summary type='text'>Sorry you got such depressing news at the appt. Maybe they will find out something helpful from the biopsy - maybe this is just a bad month for your endometrium! Back when I had regular periods (G-d it has been so long since I just cycled normally instead of with pills and shots being part of it!) I'd have very different flow each month, so maybe some of those linings were better suited to baby </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6918091123898582552'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6918091123898582552'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243746494867#c6918091123898582552' title=''/><author><name>musicmakermomma</name><uri>http://musicmakermomma.livejournal.com/</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/openid16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1667568885'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6607064657033177731</id><published>2009-05-30T19:05:17.539-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T19:05:17.539-05:00</updated><title type='text'>its funny how this changes how we perceive the kid...</title><summary type='text'>its funny how this changes how we perceive the kids running around and sometimes into us when we are out and about.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I'm off for a beach day myself.  Take care and so sorry to hear that the estrogen isn't working its magic</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6607064657033177731'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6607064657033177731'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243728317539#c6607064657033177731' title=''/><author><name>Smiling</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13251527394755383001</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_u3vz7XLaGRw/ScytHz-nAaI/AAAAAAAAANY/BlAcldpSxKs/S220/P1000544.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-452483477'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-8143000513634719822</id><published>2009-05-30T17:00:52.826-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T17:00:52.826-05:00</updated><title type='text'>It does go with you everywhere, doesn't it? Hoping...</title><summary type='text'>It does go with you everywhere, doesn't it? Hoping you both have some good times at the beach (and wishing I was near one myself...)</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/8143000513634719822'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/8143000513634719822'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243720852826#c8143000513634719822' title=''/><author><name>Monique</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/01118828184544184591</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='24' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_CMUIAQLb7P4/SZZLWpcVWeI/AAAAAAAAACk/Dc0rGHENJOE/S220/Barbados+2+074.JPG'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-2055375916'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6265274555919881526</id><published>2009-05-30T14:56:29.274-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T14:56:29.274-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I loved kids, and worked with them for a long time...</title><summary type='text'>I loved kids, and worked with them for a long time in my life, but, when the reality that is the super infertile, I didn't want to be around them (or more specifically I didn't want to be around their mothers - the kids I was fine with - but the mothers I had a problem with). some days are better than others.&lt;br /&gt;0.2 growth is better than nothing - perhaps scar removal and another go with the </summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6265274555919881526'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/6265274555919881526'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243713389274#c6265274555919881526' title=''/><author><name>Duck</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='21' src='http://bp0.blogger.com/_YUoDvlLGg8I/R5YlBIEowMI/AAAAAAAAAAs/-04FvX1g_7A/S220/images.jpeg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-562229559'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-5521973184430660083</id><published>2009-05-30T13:10:27.869-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-30T13:10:27.869-05:00</updated><title type='text'>And he's right, you do.  I'm just so sorry they ca...</title><summary type='text'>And he's right, you do.  I'm just so sorry they can't be here with you :(&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sad to hear about your lining. I'm sending you lots of positive thoughts and *hugs*.</summary><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/5521973184430660083'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/1919966175752837604/comments/default/5521973184430660083'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html?showComment=1243707027869#c5521973184430660083' title=''/><author><name>jill</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/06645802594940433840</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.themaybebaby.com/2009/05/measuring-heartache.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-1919966175752837604' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4081793919169564426/posts/default/1919966175752837604' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1971931613'/></entry></feed>
