tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post2467765496780597512..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): Taxed by Taxes and Other Thingsmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-54319510342546467942009-02-12T18:19:00.000-05:002009-02-12T18:19:00.000-05:00gosh, i have the same SS issue...they actually to...gosh, i have the same SS issue...they actually told me they don't issue numbers for "dead babies" - nice. thanks for making my day...<BR/><BR/>i'm thinking i might just let it go. not worth the heartache of explaining to someone why i need them...its not about the money. its about proving they were. proving they were our children...<BR/><BR/>((hugs))Devonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08741058376833464074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-58514245763396935262009-02-08T19:00:00.000-05:002009-02-08T19:00:00.000-05:00I claimed Ernest on my taxes without a SS#. I nev...I claimed Ernest on my taxes without a SS#. I never got one for him. I just sent in a copy of the unofficial birth certificate. I am sure it was supposed to be official, but 5 years later and no audit yet.<BR/><BR/>It just sucks doesn't it? Claiming a dead baby on your taxes - or babies in your case. How strange that we save money? How strange that a few minutes or hours can make the Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-69171654479079645052009-02-08T18:14:00.000-05:002009-02-08T18:14:00.000-05:00OMG. The tax/SSN situation, after al you've been t...OMG. The tax/SSN situation, after al you've been through, sounds like such an insult. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that.Two Shorten the Roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03552869938010784108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-8299704963061614252009-02-08T15:01:00.000-05:002009-02-08T15:01:00.000-05:00That letter is one for the record books - or the a...That letter is one for the record books - or the archives at the very least. <BR/><BR/>I have a similar version - more anger and rage infused though - as our baby was one of those born still girls they just don't see any sense in recognizing. <BR/><BR/>Praying your surgery goes well and the wait is bearable.Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-12512123799846367682009-02-07T13:24:00.000-05:002009-02-07T13:24:00.000-05:00Peace and piece.Poked by the acupuncturist (in a h...Peace and piece.<BR/><BR/>Poked by the acupuncturist (in a helpful way) and poked by the I R S (not so much).<BR/><BR/>It's almost surreal, isn't it?<BR/><BR/>XO, M.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-36432830160140686172009-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:002009-02-07T12:09:00.000-05:00Yay, visiting the SS office is always a little sli...Yay, visiting the SS office is always a little slice of heaven. Not. And especially NOT when it's a situation like yours. I'm sorry you have to deal with that.<BR/><BR/>Also sorry about the ute complication. I do think your acupuncturist gave excellent advice. <BR/><BR/>I get to go for an HSG in a couple of weeks. I hope to heck it doesn't hurt as much as it did the first time.Ryan's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08851872543330753308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-2170746324119145802009-02-07T11:34:00.000-05:002009-02-07T11:34:00.000-05:00Ugh. I just wrote you a long comment then my comp...Ugh. I just wrote you a long comment then my computer locked up! I don't see it here, but maybe that' just because comments require approval first? (If so, I'd feel like an idiot posting twice! Delete this!) <BR/><BR/>The short version: I totally hate this for you, it totally sucks, and I hope you're able to really "lay down the law" (in the words of my mother) at the SS office. Sometimes Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-42975793007162843782009-02-07T11:10:00.000-05:002009-02-07T11:10:00.000-05:00I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. Someti...I'm so sorry you're dealing with all this. Sometimes it seems like the insults added to injury never end, doesn't it! <BR/><BR/>In the words of my mother, I hope you're able to really "lay down the law" at the SS office :) <BR/><BR/>Thank you for your comment on my post also. It was beautiful, and really warmed my heart. <BR/><BR/>((Hugs)) sweetie.Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-66904301312627647562009-02-07T06:28:00.000-05:002009-02-07T06:28:00.000-05:00I had to be reminded several times that I'd just g...I had to be reminded several times that I'd just given birth when I expressed my frustration at not healing. Now I'm frustrated but accepting the reasons why.<BR/><BR/>I have my similar-to-HSG HyCoSy scan thingy coming up soon, to check on the "chunk of something" fibroids that I need to be gone. Oh joy.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry you have to go through all that tax crap, how pointlessly bureaucratic andBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.com