tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post3848648711091283741..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): A Confessionmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-71486370249478106662007-12-08T15:49:00.000-05:002007-12-08T15:49:00.000-05:00I think that once you've been classified as an "in...I think that once you've been classified as an "infertile" or have had recurrent m/c, you are always fearfull. I'm 12 weeks past IVF and even thought I know the odds of failure again at this point are low, I can not get over feeling that the odds have been against me in so many ways thus far... I am still expecting failure to appear on the horizon. <BR/><BR/>Just a note to confirm what others BlackLiteraturehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08103926067284048804noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-32654549188366461862007-11-14T11:30:00.000-05:002007-11-14T11:30:00.000-05:00Hey boo. I hope you are all muddling through there...Hey boo. I hope you are all muddling through there. Thinking of you,<BR/>SarahAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-90602702549795102242007-11-13T15:29:00.000-05:002007-11-13T15:29:00.000-05:00my heart is breaking for your friend too. I’m so g...my heart is breaking for your friend too. I’m so glad that he felt he could call and confide in you. <BR/><BR/>As kami said we have no control over the future. I try to remember it’s not all full of bad things and worst case scenarios. sometimes, often, good things happen too. sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. <BR/><BR/>But i do know that somehow we get through what life brings us and stacybhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15287587962566164235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-2405645812072684722007-11-12T14:26:00.000-05:002007-11-12T14:26:00.000-05:00So very sorry for what your friends are going thro...So very sorry for what your friends are going through. It must have been hard for you, also but it sounds like you and your hubby were very helpful and consoling.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10271156228029984462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-69083245231560575902007-11-11T20:03:00.000-05:002007-11-11T20:03:00.000-05:00I am so sorry for your friends. I teared up at th...I am so sorry for your friends. I teared up at the midnight call. I don't know them at all, but I felt what they felt for a moment and it such a sad thing to make that midnight call to friends and relatives saying it is all over.<BR/><BR/>I don't know that it helps, but I can assure you that although it is awful, you would survive an early or late loss. Experience has taught me that it doesn't Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-15865052865134659522007-11-11T15:29:00.000-05:002007-11-11T15:29:00.000-05:00I had never thought of it in terms of no worse of...I had never thought of it in terms of no worse off -- never having something vs losing something.<BR/><BR/>Kind of the reverse of that Tennyson line, "Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all."<BR/><BR/>Both are hard to endure.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for the loss your friend & cousin are going through.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-43154428401775066842007-11-11T15:24:00.000-05:002007-11-11T15:24:00.000-05:00I understand.And I, who have had many early miscar...I understand.<BR/><BR/>And I, who have had many early miscarriages, wait in fear of a late loss. I think we've lost our innocence and we know bad things do happen to good people and we're scared to hope that we'll avoid them happening to us.<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry for your friend and his partner.<BR/><BR/>xxDrowned Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07930956007436787200noreply@blogger.com