tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post4063237743874266197..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): Hair Triggermhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-71034021479468961352009-02-03T21:31:00.000-05:002009-02-03T21:31:00.000-05:00That just makes me cry. Yes, he should be a fathe...That just makes me cry. Yes, he should be a father. It's not fair. He should have two beautiful little girls, and I'm so sorry that he doesn't. That you don't. All of my heart aches for both of you.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08339920449924488366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-85363573543704186502009-02-03T13:14:00.000-05:002009-02-03T13:14:00.000-05:00I hope for both of you that M gets to have that so...I hope for both of you that M gets to have that sooner rather than later. Hugs.JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11508905536866945553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-644061231930276072009-02-03T00:14:00.000-05:002009-02-03T00:14:00.000-05:00((hugs))) sweetheart....I can understand how your ...((hugs))) sweetheart....I can understand how your DH must feel...my DH is the same, emotionaly as well as career wise...Our guys deserve to be daddys..and they will be.Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11395529198459662630noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-90016007609172853742009-02-02T22:04:00.000-05:002009-02-02T22:04:00.000-05:00Wow. That kind of a comment even made me cry - whi...Wow. That kind of a comment even made me cry - while I was trying to think of something I could comment with that wouldn't make you cry (I was thinking of mentioning toe-jam). And then you end with that. ~hugs~tears~hugs~nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479202205264710056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-79920568207682796592009-02-02T18:40:00.000-05:002009-02-02T18:40:00.000-05:00Hey! Just catching up on your posts. I am so moved...Hey! Just catching up on your posts. I am so moved by your quest to say / write the right thing after loss, yet even we- the people who KNOW what we want THEM to say, can't figure it out. <BR/><BR/>And yes - you both should be parenting. Instead you are both grieving. (sigh)Carahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6793848290190608682009-02-02T17:26:00.000-05:002009-02-02T17:26:00.000-05:00Some days are just crying days. I have mine too. ...Some days are just crying days. I have mine too. I agree, it breaks my heart all over again that my husband is as sad and sorrowful as I am.ezra'smommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-17829663022419735912009-02-02T16:56:00.000-05:002009-02-02T16:56:00.000-05:00Looks like we're all shedding some tears here.I SO...Looks like we're all shedding some tears here.<BR/><BR/>I SO want Ray to be a daddy, sometimes even more than I want mummyhood for myself.<BR/><BR/>As for careers? I fell into my job and now I'm happily falling out of it and looking forward to the next step. Ray does what he likes doing, until he doesn't like it and then he'll do something else! We're far from rich but we're so much happier this Barbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-82160513612878994242009-02-02T16:20:00.000-05:002009-02-02T16:20:00.000-05:00hugs to you today. So hard to deal with all of it,...hugs to you today. So hard to deal with all of it, but, it's great that you are there for each other. THe hell with normal career paths (I too get fustrated at times with this - I went to uni for a decade, I should get paid more than an auto worker) then I remember, age is in my head, and no one else'sNadinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08219960725085412879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-58393159687093913772009-02-02T15:50:00.000-05:002009-02-02T15:50:00.000-05:00At least now you have a whole bunch of us tearing ...At least now you have a whole bunch of us tearing up with you! I can relate--my husband recently told me that it's really all he wants in life, to be someone's daddy. Lots of love to you and M~hopefully we all get there!Brennahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04177178792621340014noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-58525225141488496942009-02-02T15:31:00.000-05:002009-02-02T15:31:00.000-05:00Hugs.Hugs.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-83032515065804569032009-02-02T15:29:00.000-05:002009-02-02T15:29:00.000-05:00Now I'm tearing up. In the rare moments when I'm ...Now I'm tearing up. In the rare moments when I'm not grieving my own loss, I look over at my husband, and I am just so sorry for HIS loss.<BR/><BR/>M sounds like a real keeper.Dani819https://www.blogger.com/profile/00620957484893505246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-32572880961730402622009-02-02T15:23:00.000-05:002009-02-02T15:23:00.000-05:00Oh my - way to tug at my heart :) I can only imag...Oh my - way to tug at my heart :) I can only imagine standing in your shoes and hearing such sweet but heartbreaking words. Its so hard to concentrate on things like work when the one thing we really want is out of our reach. I'm so sorry you're both going through this. But how beautiful is his honesty and the fact that you're going through this together. That has to count for something - Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.com