tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post6565941698144417259..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): The Nadirmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-45170905804146021962009-03-25T12:40:00.000-05:002009-03-25T12:40:00.000-05:00I know it has been a few days and I hope that you ...I know it has been a few days and I hope that you are starting to get your voice back a little. I'm so sorry - sending my thoughts your way.Somewhat Ordinaryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09701338805685025735noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-35119889302363622132009-03-24T17:25:00.000-05:002009-03-24T17:25:00.000-05:00My heart breaks for both of you. My thoughts are ...My heart breaks for both of you. My thoughts are with you during this horrible time.<BR/><BR/>You are doing all good things to keep going. Good for you for noticing what you need and didn't need that night. I wish you peace.Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-77908498078103568762009-03-24T11:57:00.000-05:002009-03-24T11:57:00.000-05:00Thinking of you and wishing you had your little on...Thinking of you and wishing you had your little ones with you. I can relate to so much that you wrote, we also had tagged a certain time as one when we expected our twins to arrive and it held as much significance as their actual due date. I hope the coming days bring more peace.Bustedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09926427330808873296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-34001047223826998522009-03-23T15:13:00.000-05:002009-03-23T15:13:00.000-05:00I'm sorry you weren't able to go through w...I'm sorry you weren't able to go through with dinner, but it's understandable. Dh & I ordered in Chinese every year on Katie's anniversary date -- partly because that's what we did when we got home from the hospital, but also because it didn't feel right to be going out to "celebrate" such a sad occasion. Last year we actually did go to a Chinese restaurant loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-52920592042802962162009-03-23T13:27:00.000-05:002009-03-23T13:27:00.000-05:00Thinking of you during this really challenging tim...Thinking of you during this really challenging time of grief. Defining how you memorialize is definately a choice you will make together. In time...lots and lots and lots of it- you may find some bittersweet kind of anticiptaion knowing your special days are coming.<BR/><BR/>xoxoxoxoCarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08878937591945134056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-31598662947399289542009-03-23T11:18:00.000-05:002009-03-23T11:18:00.000-05:00You are both in my thoughts and close in my heart....You are both in my thoughts and close in my heart. <BR/><BR/>Hugs.danahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14629199548004353461noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-15029548922682753512009-03-23T07:30:00.000-05:002009-03-23T07:30:00.000-05:00I'm thinking of you and wishing there was somethin...I'm thinking of you and wishing there was something more I could say. Take care.SassyCupcakeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06093736219562358428noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-44966669065359041792009-03-23T03:32:00.000-05:002009-03-23T03:32:00.000-05:00sending love through the radio silence. My voice ...sending love through the radio silence. My voice cracks just from reading your post. Oh there are no words. I am so very sorry.<BR/><BR/>Even if you don't send out the invites, all of us are standing a few paces behind you quietly in memory when you plant those treesSmilinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13251527394755383001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-48065778029080397892009-03-22T22:55:00.000-05:002009-03-22T22:55:00.000-05:00Oh my goodness. I'm so VERY very sorry to have no...Oh my goodness. I'm so VERY very sorry to have not been paying more attention to your blog to have known what was going on this weekend. And to be so selfish to want to take you to H's and have some time with you. Like the last thing you need is any kind of guilt feelings for not wanting to go anywhere. <BR/><BR/>Several people asked about you last night, also having not been passed the word Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-805221605225736112009-03-22T21:15:00.000-05:002009-03-22T21:15:00.000-05:00m,i am thinking of you and your husband. i will ha...m,<BR/><BR/>i am thinking of you and your husband. i will have a lot of thoughts about your last two posts. but words are failing me just now. will comment properly soon. i am so very sorry it is such a rough time right now.<BR/><BR/>moMohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671855540466269330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-48459486192492464482009-03-22T20:57:00.000-05:002009-03-22T20:57:00.000-05:00Abiding with you and keeping you and M both in my ...Abiding with you and keeping you and M both in my thoughts and prayers. Wishing you all the time and silence you need, and ample access to those wonderful-sounding poodles.annacyclopediahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10461037288546901657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-27910869891353860972009-03-22T19:55:00.000-05:002009-03-22T19:55:00.000-05:00I wish things were so very different for you, for ...I wish things were so very different for you, for all of us. xoxoezra'smommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17342399045659116165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-14923844840308779872009-03-22T19:01:00.000-05:002009-03-22T19:01:00.000-05:00Gawd, the stuff you two are going through is just....Gawd, the stuff you two are going through is just... just too much. I get why you can't use your voice, why you'd want to hide behind email. You're brave for even trying to go out - seriously.chicklethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16090701824999372199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-72154147397648482662009-03-22T18:16:00.000-05:002009-03-22T18:16:00.000-05:00Abiding with you both, M.Big, big hugs. BIG ones.Abiding with you both, M.<BR/><BR/>Big, big hugs. BIG ones.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-89575626350594643332009-03-22T16:35:00.000-05:002009-03-22T16:35:00.000-05:00This is my first time ever posting to a blog that ...This is my first time ever posting to a blog that I frequent, but want to wish you my support and strength.<BR/><BR/>I had my loss at 21 weeks in Sept 2008 and I want to tell you that it will get easier. Please know that everything you feel and experience right now, however terrible it is, will not be how it is forever. You will get past this milestone, to face the next, and you'll then you'll Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-47531473653353539572009-03-22T16:26:00.000-05:002009-03-22T16:26:00.000-05:00Lots of love and hugs to both of you. You're in my...Lots of love and hugs to both of you. You're in my thoughts.lostintranslationhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01028460277488788467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-62216448390018271762009-03-22T15:17:00.000-05:002009-03-22T15:17:00.000-05:00There is such a fine line, between pushing yoursel...There is such a fine line, between pushing yourself to "get out there," and just holeing up inside of yourself and protecting your heart. It seems that you're definitely entitled to do the later right now and I hope your radio silence will allow you to clear your head a bit. Sometimes silence (and poodles, of course!) helps more than anything else.<BR/><BR/>As for the memorial - I'm sure it Bluebirdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-50107029911153495312009-03-22T12:22:00.000-05:002009-03-22T12:22:00.000-05:00I am so sorry that the girls aren't here with you....I am so sorry that the girls aren't here with you. Take care of yourself and M. I'm thinking of you.Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08339920449924488366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-70702537866744171132009-03-22T11:40:00.000-05:002009-03-22T11:40:00.000-05:00I'm sorry you and M are having such a rough weeken...I'm sorry you and M are having such a rough weekend. With any loss, there are these milestone moments to get through. "Today would have been the day that..." "It's our first holiday without..." "A year ago today is when it happened..."<BR/><BR/>Those feelings never go away, but they do tend to appear less often and less sharply. <BR/><BR/>I think a day of 'radio silence' is a wonderful idea. LoveJust mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05671919237872985299noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-65334667727283790452009-03-22T11:39:00.000-05:002009-03-22T11:39:00.000-05:00I know how you feel, and I am so sorry. My DH had ...I know how you feel, and I am so sorry. My DH had a complete meltdown at the local mexican eatery, it was awful, it consisted of chips being tossed and him running out of the door.<BR/>I know that the memorial will be rally hard for you both, but for us, we are so thankful that we went through with it, it isnt easy, but it gives some closure, at least it did for us.<BR/>Keeping you and your hubbyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-69423367533689988172009-03-22T11:33:00.000-05:002009-03-22T11:33:00.000-05:00I wish they were here with you. Thinking of you.I wish they were here with you. Thinking of you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-22308264759101135012009-03-22T11:07:00.000-05:002009-03-22T11:07:00.000-05:00I'm thinking of you during this difficult introspe...I'm thinking of you during this difficult introspective and retrospective time. Guarding your space is important while you grieve the life that would have been. Thank goodness for standard poodles and the unjudgmental, comforting snuggle therapy they provide. <BR/><BR/>Be good to yourself and M. <BR/>Hugs to you both.What IF?https://www.blogger.com/profile/17296831848220411473noreply@blogger.com