tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post676632452024437745..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): The Sadnessmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-31337454554163594652011-08-31T00:47:42.965-05:002011-08-31T00:47:42.965-05:00oh it is all so overwhelming. wishing you some cla...oh it is all so overwhelming. wishing you some clarity and peace as you approach the next steps. <br /><br />and that dream!lunahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15455301696832647867noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-71319404323001506522011-08-25T15:35:48.506-05:002011-08-25T15:35:48.506-05:00Those baby/child dreams are so tough. I always wal...Those baby/child dreams are so tough. I always walk around in a daze the day after.<br /><br />I'm sorry you're feeling crappy. I can't even imagine the complexity that comes along with surrogacy choices but I'm wishing you and M luck figuring everything out.jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06645802594940433840noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-3207669588592688292011-08-24T16:45:36.073-05:002011-08-24T16:45:36.073-05:00Ok, the words 'worth it' aren't sittin...Ok, the words 'worth it' aren't sitting well with me, but I hope you know what I mean.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11393847636501599146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-84026470485714983622011-08-24T16:43:48.575-05:002011-08-24T16:43:48.575-05:00Man, I want you to have that baby and to hear him/...Man, I want you to have that baby and to hear him/her call you Mom. It is then that you will realize that all of this shit, all of it, really was worth it.<br /><br />In the meantime, I am trying to figure out my coworker, just in case. You never know who will be the one.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11393847636501599146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-55346821530388471942011-08-24T15:26:56.654-05:002011-08-24T15:26:56.654-05:00You tagged this sadness, but it is just heartbreak...You tagged this sadness, but it is just heartbreaking from my point of view. <br /><br />May doors open and dreams come true -- and in the mean time beer and friends and other things to help you bid the time and get through the hard days.Smilinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13251527394755383001noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-8572535511954112642011-08-24T03:43:49.531-05:002011-08-24T03:43:49.531-05:00Just want to send you a hug through the ether -it&...Just want to send you a hug through the ether -it's such a hard, exhausting journey. We needed donor eggs and had the same dilemma as you on asking family - we didn't ask, but spoke about the fact that we needed this and a couple of relatives did offer but sadly they were not suitable. My sister told us she felt she couldn't do it, which was very painful at the time, but I totally Silverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15524066274559867949noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-27070814356463686072011-08-23T20:58:28.633-05:002011-08-23T20:58:28.633-05:00Oh, Lord- the exhaustion of TRYING instead of HAVI...Oh, Lord- the exhaustion of TRYING instead of HAVING. It is just so draining, having to gear yourself up over and over again for something that, if you're very lucky, will get you a shot at maybe someday having the thing you already should have fucking had. How can the idea of that not be exhausting, let alone the process itself? <br /><br />I hear you, sister. And in many ways I am rightDaniellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02673054313143096148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-37160543154573609722011-08-23T20:49:15.305-05:002011-08-23T20:49:15.305-05:00Huge lump in my throat reading this. I can only be...Huge lump in my throat reading this. I can only begin to imagine how this all must feel. Like Angie, wish there was more I could do, say or give to you to make this a teeny bit better.<br />So I send love and hope instead, because that's all I've got. And I figure, you could use all you can get at the moment.<br />xoHope's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04984543289642681339noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-67698025716652638032011-08-23T16:00:20.909-05:002011-08-23T16:00:20.909-05:00What a powerful dream. And fuck, those last few pa...What a powerful dream. And fuck, those last few paragraphs made me cry. I am just so angry for you, so tired for you. Wish I could give more than love and support, but since it is what I have, know it is coming your way. XOstill life angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-18712718572720750112011-08-23T15:16:38.918-05:002011-08-23T15:16:38.918-05:00Oh, what a beautiful and heartbreaking dream. May...Oh, what a beautiful and heartbreaking dream. May that dream become reality so much more easily than you are imagining right now.<br /><br />My 2 cents . . . put yourself out there and let family and friends know you are looking. Someone might volunteer and be ready and willing - perhaps even eager to help out. In the meantime you look into the agency.<br /><br />Interestingly, surrogates can&Kamihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-44492495939201042352011-08-23T14:28:03.472-05:002011-08-23T14:28:03.472-05:00I, for one, think dreams are very powerful. Yes, t...I, for one, think dreams are very powerful. Yes, they might only be projections of what we want, our minds playing mean little pranks on us, like dangling a carrot in front of a horse, but what if it's a projection of the future? I will continue to hope that this is true, because if we lose hope, we lose everything. Don't lose hope. Not yet. Not when your heart and mind knows what's Melissa N.http://www.infertilemyrtleme.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-70529500511611477642011-08-23T13:55:07.945-05:002011-08-23T13:55:07.945-05:00I hope things get easier soon. I know it's ex...I hope things get easier soon. I know it's exhausting.Suehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08188110112312139648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-51447081393902493742011-08-23T13:39:44.813-05:002011-08-23T13:39:44.813-05:00I hope beyond hope everything turns out the way yo...I hope beyond hope everything turns out the way you want. I only want good things for you, my friend. Sending much love & luck.Moniquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04188684792415196300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-39161135916312756942011-08-23T13:14:40.809-05:002011-08-23T13:14:40.809-05:00Hoping for you so very, very much.Hoping for you so very, very much.Catherine Whttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-71147519031228908292011-08-23T12:39:08.033-05:002011-08-23T12:39:08.033-05:00Standing with you in spirit. I am sorry it's s...Standing with you in spirit. I am sorry it's so very, very, hard. But I'm with M on this one. Never give up.Ryan's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08851872543330753308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-80789208931399566742011-08-23T09:36:57.557-05:002011-08-23T09:36:57.557-05:00I never had to deal with agencies and surrogacy - ...I never had to deal with agencies and surrogacy - just lots of failures and cycles. And I remember being in that Dark Place myself. It's an awful place to be.<br /><br />Abiding with you and sending you energy and hope to keep you putting one foot in front of the other. I hope this is the last try, hon.<br /><br />xoxoSerenityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17765237663006604157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-50586229330266715262011-08-23T09:22:46.752-05:002011-08-23T09:22:46.752-05:00May all the doors open effortlessly for you, m.
A...May all the doors open effortlessly for you, m.<br /><br />Abiding with you. Holding you in my heart.Lori Lavender Luzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15394441222262940632noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-71304151247190138812011-08-23T07:59:27.121-05:002011-08-23T07:59:27.121-05:00I'm so hoping that one day soon you will have ...I'm so hoping that one day soon you will have just that, a living, breathing gorgeous little baby that calls you mom. It is tiring, but I think it's the kind of tiring that you will look back on with such gratitude that you took it on. I also told DH recently that I need to see the end of this marathon in sight, baby or not, because I just can't anymore. But it isn't true... <Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-29205399787553182182011-08-23T07:55:45.801-05:002011-08-23T07:55:45.801-05:00I am hoping so very hard that this next try result...I am hoping so very hard that this next try results in that baby boy you dreamt. That's all.TracyOChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16227348728165440844noreply@blogger.com