tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post8800878306730369353..comments2009-12-01T18:16:18.151-05:00mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950me@themaybebaby.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-89055006993562276612009-12-01T18:16:18.156-05:002009-12-01T18:16:18.156-05:00I just wanted to let you know that I am listeningKamihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01215000341567119958noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-27752532239251342422009-11-30T02:43:43.473-05:002009-11-30T02:43:43.473-05:00i completely understand where you are coming from, because i have been there. it is so frustrating and completely horrid that those missing pieces in our lives are not even close to anything we need or want in our lives. for me, it made me angry that i had ever wasted a moment wondering or spent any energy at all on them. i am sorry that it was not all a great experience. it is wonderful that some good came out of it, so hold onto that good and let the bad go (i know way easier said than done.) <br /><br />someone told me, at the time of my meeting, something that helped me really put things into perspective. &quot;don&#39;t hate it for what it isn&#39;t, just love it for what it is.&quot;Jaymeehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05386596837111351204noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-17210160686163598772009-11-29T07:17:54.831-05:002009-11-29T07:17:54.831-05:00I absolutely think that the first line of this post should be the first line of your memoir. <br /><br />I wish there were some virtual way to buy you a drink when you were on your bender. Like all of the sudden the bartender comes over and says, &quot;This one is on Angie. Then, this one is on clare...&quot; I&#39;m sure you would have been drinking for a few weeks though.<br /><br />No words about the negative, just a ton of love. Xoangiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15150141781089602529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-18630053733121173082009-11-28T19:53:20.018-05:002009-11-28T19:53:20.018-05:00There are no good words--I&#39;m just sending love.Lollipop Goldsteinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01020874415819057995noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-66468578031768048542009-11-28T10:12:41.252-05:002009-11-28T10:12:41.252-05:00Oh how I feel like I could have written your post on a certain level. *huge hugs*Jessicahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02888261160201216584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-84575869007659944722009-11-27T20:45:36.141-05:002009-11-27T20:45:36.141-05:00Hi, I am just catching up with you and your so painful news. I am so so sorry. That is so f. Ing unfair and rotten. Sorry about hubby&#39;s hangover. Indulge in all the food, drink and tv that you need. (((hugs)))tireegal68http://www.blogger.com/profile/13943003575298698264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-82251396662157502382009-11-27T20:38:49.451-05:002009-11-27T20:38:49.451-05:00I&#39;m so sorry. I would have hit happy hour, nachos and pizza too. In fact, I think I have done some version of that after every bfn. Thinking of you and M...birdsandsquirrelshttp://birdsandsquirrels.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-40536238622076573692009-11-27T20:33:40.169-05:002009-11-27T20:33:40.169-05:00Aw man. I&#39;m so sorry to hear your news. That sucks.Two Shorten the Roadhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03552869938010784108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-6008312060720296782009-11-27T12:19:15.293-05:002009-11-27T12:19:15.293-05:00I can&#39;t think of a more fitting way you two could have spent the day. <br /><br />And I hate what today holds for M. And I super admire that you are even considering moving from the sofa :) I&#39;m not sure I would. <br /><br />M&#39;s words re the last two weeks really spoke to me. I hadn&#39;t thought of it before, and I suspect it&#39;s something only fellow IFers can understand, but it does make total sense. As heartbreaking as treatment usually is, there is something to just going through the motions. I&#39;ve never been able to put my finger on what it is exactly, but M&#39;s probably right - it&#39;s hope. <br /><br />I&#39;m so proud of you two for having hope. I&#39;m I&#39;m so incredibly sorry that that hope wasn&#39;t enough to make something happen. Try to hang on to it though, honey - hope, and each other.Bluebirdhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05026618678540051581noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-3870782764948554482009-11-27T09:35:12.538-05:002009-11-27T09:35:12.538-05:00Well, feck. I&#39;m sorry.Ryan's Mommyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08851872543330753308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-40291925827316617452009-11-26T22:19:11.565-05:002009-11-26T22:19:11.565-05:00so sorry for this negative. it never gets any easier to hear that news and to feel all the plans drain away. do what it takes to find a way back to &#39;ok&#39;.Mhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05466722859869773647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-10314915349858596582009-11-26T18:02:05.408-05:002009-11-26T18:02:05.408-05:00I&#39;m so sorry about the negative - for both you and M. I know you&#39;ll make it to the other side eventually, but I had hoped it would be with this cycle. Hang in there and don&#39;t give up.Suehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08188110112312139648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-64405872713525560412009-11-26T17:04:02.577-05:002009-11-26T17:04:02.577-05:00I&#39;m so sorry. Keep going, that&#39;s all I can say. Even though it feels like 20 steps back...Lizhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15310297494864046375noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-64142517429072780942009-11-26T15:35:53.507-05:002009-11-26T15:35:53.507-05:00Oh no. Damnit.<br />I&#39;ll buy the case after Clare&#39;s.Catherine Whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01618295389400457254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-51798584512487692972009-11-26T14:17:26.097-05:002009-11-26T14:17:26.097-05:00Oh M... I am glad you had that bit of hope, like a breath of necessary air when floating in a stormy sea. But damn it, this was suppose to work. I am so sorry. <br /><br />I did involuntarily laugh when I read the line about yanking the patches off at the liquour store. I promise if I ever see that in real life, I&#39;ll buy the next case of whatever they are buying... but you hit my strange sense of humor with that line. <br /><br />Oh I am thinking of you both. Will the 4 day weekend help or hurt?clarehttp://circlesbecomeme.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-45066640595117349052009-11-26T12:16:19.221-05:002009-11-26T12:16:19.221-05:00Thinking of you my friend... Big love and hugs to you both xxxC86http://www.blogger.com/profile/17730481958713552116noreply@blogger.com