tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post8923234644970647661..comments2024-01-01T03:41:22.940-05:00Comments on The Maybe Baby (Babies): A Bad Joke and a Dinner Planmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07830332489753742950noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-78741911362060755862009-02-02T09:31:00.000-05:002009-02-02T09:31:00.000-05:00I am obsessed with knowing the exact order of what...I am obsessed with knowing the exact order of what happened and why. And I never will. Tolerance of uncertainty has never been my strong suit. <BR/><BR/>So much of friendship revolves around showing up for other people's occasions, both good and bad. Good for you for recognizing the importance of showing up for no good reason at all except that you want to.Dani819https://www.blogger.com/profile/00620957484893505246noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-26615041035761970212009-02-01T14:22:00.000-05:002009-02-01T14:22:00.000-05:00I hope your dinner went well. That is a good prac...I hope your dinner went well. That is a good practice. We need to have people over for "no reason" more often.JPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11508905536866945553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-9888917070866561752009-02-01T00:44:00.000-05:002009-02-01T00:44:00.000-05:00I'm sorry. I have a list of "what ifs". It's just ...I'm sorry. I have a list of "what ifs". It's just hard. <BR/><BR/>I'm glad you had dinner plans. It took me a long time to be with other people.Mrs. Spithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03386820063407910064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-21331226105757325282009-02-01T00:34:00.000-05:002009-02-01T00:34:00.000-05:00Glad you are feeling better with a side of ~hugs~ ...Glad you are feeling better with a side of ~hugs~ on everything else.<BR/><BR/>And please, send me some of that dinner, will ya?nancyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04479202205264710056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-25206248951884343322009-01-31T18:40:00.000-05:002009-01-31T18:40:00.000-05:00I think that it can be very therapeutic to have co...I think that it can be very therapeutic to have company, a friend over etc. even if both of you just sit in silence and watch a movie.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-18923283268470276432009-01-31T16:45:00.000-05:002009-01-31T16:45:00.000-05:00I don't think it's a silly question. I would want ...I don't think it's a silly question. I would want to know too. I would hope, though, that your doctors will keep both possibilities in mind for the future, and treat accordingly.<BR/><BR/>Sounds like you are in for a good evening!Ryan's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08851872543330753308noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-2360920281969718402009-01-31T15:31:00.000-05:002009-01-31T15:31:00.000-05:00m,love your joke - and that's great that you're fi...m,<BR/><BR/>love your joke - and that's great that you're finding ways to get people over for dinner and reconnnecting with folks. truly awesome. i remain impressed at how good you are at keeping up your sense of humor and aliveness even in the immediate aftermath of your loss.<BR/><BR/>MoMohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01671855540466269330noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-56253848435268029152009-01-31T15:21:00.000-05:002009-01-31T15:21:00.000-05:00Good idea to spend time with others. It may not ge...Good idea to spend time with others. It may not get your mind really "off" of what happened, but still it reminds us that it is ok to have a little fun now and again.Lisa DGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02134785866812104866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4081793919169564426.post-56848986456571287422009-01-31T15:15:00.000-05:002009-01-31T15:15:00.000-05:00I don't think, even if you have the definitive rea...I don't think, even if you have the definitive reason, it will make much difference to how you feel. I've been given two possible reasons and it doesn't change my sadness but only gives me hope that with treatment it won't happen again.<BR/><BR/>Good for you for reaching out!<BR/><BR/>xxxBarbarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01484695553612265127noreply@blogger.com